{"id":5129,"date":"2015-03-25T04:00:26","date_gmt":"2015-03-25T09:00:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/newsinteractive.post-gazette.com\/thedigs\/?p=5129"},"modified":"2015-03-25T11:12:30","modified_gmt":"2015-03-25T16:12:30","slug":"how-to-raise-a-teenager-in-the-modern-age","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/newsinteractive.post-gazette.com\/thedigs\/2015\/03\/25\/how-to-raise-a-teenager-in-the-modern-age\/","title":{"rendered":"How to raise a teenager in the modern age"},"content":{"rendered":"
\"Learn <\/a>
Learn the twist! That’s what The Pittsburgh Press commanded in 1962. Hope Steverman and Clem English took up the challenge. Andy Gamble’s at the piano. (Pittsburgh Press photo) <\/div> <\/div>
\"80s <\/a>
Students at Swissvale High School wore trendy clothes in 1984. (Bill Levis\/Post-Gazette) <\/div> <\/div>
\"Close <\/a>
One couple gets close during a Brentwood Park dance in 1947. (Pittsburgh Press photo) <\/div> <\/div> <\/div>
\"Waiting <\/a>
Teens wait outside the Civic Arena before a Rolling Stones concert in 1966. A caption writer at The Pittsburgh Press wrote, “The one of the left, with the purse, is a girl … or is it the one on the right?” <\/div> <\/div> <\/div> <\/div>
\"Waiting <\/a>
James Redman, left, and Steven Thompson attended a Pittsburgh City Council hearing on the establishment of a curfew in 1985. (Mark Murphy\/Post-Gazette) <\/div> <\/div> <\/div>
\"Smoking <\/a>
Chris Gooden of Washington, PA, left, relaxes with Brian Dixon of Peters at McDonald’s near South Park. (Vince Musi\/The Pittsburgh Press) <\/div> <\/div>
\"Listening <\/a>
A group of young men hung out at an unspecified Pittsburgh location in 1984. (Bill Levis\/Post-Gazette) <\/div> <\/div> <\/div>
\""Bobby-soxer" <\/a>
A teen identified only as Mary in 1946 plastered her room with images of Sinatra and Van Johnson. “Such interests as church socials and stamp collecting occupy teen-agers,” the caption read. (Pittsburgh Press photo) <\/div> <\/div> <\/div> <\/div>
\""fussing" <\/a>
“A boy tends to comb his hair quickly, using a few bold strokes, but a girl will fuss over the smallest details,” read the original caption to this Pittsburgh Press picture in 1968. <\/div> <\/div> <\/div>
\"Culture <\/a>
This teenager was photographed outside a Culture Club concert in 1984. (Mark Murphy\/Post-Gazette) <\/div> <\/div> <\/div> <\/div>
\"Hallway <\/a>
Students chat in the hallway at McKeesport Area High School in 1986. (Harry Coughanour\/Post-Gazette) <\/div> <\/div> <\/div> <\/div> <\/div>\n

Those of us who are senior members of The Digs staff recall with great precision what it\u2019s like to be a teenager. We constantly remind our kids of this fact. We make it a point to start every parent-child conversation with the phrase, \u201cWhen I was your age \u2026. \u201c<\/p>\n

Then we impart valuable advice on dress, hairstyles (we recommend the mullet because, well, it\u2019s timeless), relationships (\u201cYou\u2019re not having one\u201d), lunch room food, school, movies and music.<\/p>\n

Recently we passed on to our children our best Steve Miller Band cassette tape, which we played constantly last summer while driving to Rehoboth Beach in our Plymouth Neon. It\u2019s our opinion that kids these days need constant exposure to classic rock songs such as \u201cFly Like an Eagle\u201d \u00a0and \u201cJet Airliner.\u201d Otherwise they\u2019ll end up listening to Neil Diamond.<\/p>\n

The kids must love the tape, because it\u2019s never been returned.<\/p>\n

Of course, as soon as we begin recalling our youthful days, our teenage children grab their phones and type the knowledge we impart. That\u2019s one of the miracles of the modern age \u2014 wisdom can be spread to three or four people all at once.<\/p>\n

Last week, for example, Daughter No. 1 typed on her phone, \u201cDad sez the original Carrie is the best movie of all time. LOL.\u201d<\/p>\n

LOL, said Daughter No. 2, means \u201cLots of Learning.\u201d \u00a0Our kids are proud their parents are so hip to the latest slang.<\/p>\n

\u201cI can dig it,\u201d we replied, \u201cto the max!<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n

Both our daughters immediately typed on their phones again. They grinned wildly — they couldn\u2019t wait to pass on to their friends such a jivin\u2019<\/em> phrase. In fact, we\u2019re pretty sure we started a trend. Don\u2019t be surprised if, one day soon, your teen offers a hand and says, \u201cBe shagadelic and gimme some skin<\/em>.\u201d<\/p>\n

Of course, it\u2019s tough being a teenager. The challenges, we realize, can be devastating. We\u2019ll never forget how difficult it was to dance \u201cThe Hustle\u201d in those two-tone platform shoes we bought on sale at Gimbels in 1978. Gads! It\u2019s a wonder we survived.<\/p>\n

A few days ago, in a fit of nostalgia, we ventured into the PG picture files and pulled every folder labeled, \u201cTeenagers.\u201d Each contained dozens of crisp black-and-white prints showing kids dancing the twist or holding hands or trying to look cool by smoking cigarettes and wearing Led Zeppelin T-shirts. We couldn\u2019t relate.<\/p>\n

In our opinion, pictures of teenagers should be taken on an ancient Kodak camera held by a mother with horn-rimmed glasses and a beehive hairdo. The prints should be color — faded color. We wondered: Where\u2019s the picture of the awkward, pimple-faced boy wearing a baby blue leisure suit and standing next to a girl with a Farrah Fawcett hairdo? Where is the photo of the bratty kid sister wearing a \u201cBay City Rollers\u201d T-shirt?<\/p>\n

We immediately rushed home, pulled out dusty photo album dated \u201c1975-79\u201d and showed our daughters pictures that proved we navigated our teenage years with class and style. All they could say was, \u201cOh, my gosh!\u201d and \u201cYou\u2019ve got to be kidding me!.\u201d They clasped their hands over their mouths. They were so amazed.<\/p>\n

Then they took out their phones and took pictures of our old pictures and sent them to their friends. We could tell they were so proud.<\/p>\n

As they finished sending messages, we offered one last piece of advice.<\/p>\n

\u201cDon\u2019t say \u2018goodbye,\u2019\u201d we urged, \u201csay \u2018Catch you on the rebound.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n

They were so moved they couldn\u2019t contain their emotions. Their faces turned red and tears streamed down their cheeks.<\/p>\n

We\u2019re hoping the Steve Miller Band comes to Pittsburgh soon. We know a few girls who\u2019d love to have tickets.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

What’s it like to be a teenager in Pittsburgh? The answer has (and has not) changed with each generation.<\/p>\n

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